Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Divorced at Age 50's cause Love was fade

If the kids are grown and independent then retirement age arrives, for many couples it's time to enjoy life again means alone together.

But, for the generation of 'baby boom' in particular in the UK, their 50s were followed by the number of petition for divorce.

Surveys in the UK showed that most divorce from couples who are aged over 50 years cause loss of love, intimacy, and sex drive is down between couples, according to the Daily Mail quoted.

The poll showed that 28 percent of the respondents involved stated that they divorced because their spouses are emotionally cold and distant. 25 percent said it had lost sexual interest in their partner.

Some 27 percent of couples have other reasons which are no longer committed to the wedding.

The main reason for the male partner to end was the loss of passionate sex marriage on the couple. A third of male respondents admitted it. As for women, above all, their husbands are now cooler.

In addition, one of the factors that cause 14 percent of divorce's respondents are nagging. Instead, ten percent of respondents said they no longer have the topics to be discussed.

Agency UK statistics reveal that the divorce rate in couples aged over 50 years peaked in 2004 with about 25,000 divorces a year before finally falling to 22,000 divorces.

The experts believe that many couples are still together just to raise their children. When their child has their own and began to rethink their future.

In addition to several reasons earlier, financial factors also affect the marriage because nine percent of respondents said they divorced because the couple no longer able to meet their financial needs. While eight percent said their partner spends too much money.

Another factor is a family problem. Five percent of respondents said they were waiting for their adult children and then divorced again while four percent said that divorce is caused by parents or their in-laws.

The work also could lead to divorce. Eight percent of respondents said the work to make marriage a mess while five percent even suspect that their partner was having an affair with co-workers.

The survey was organized by the 'Saga', a company that specializes products for people over the age of 50 years. The survey involved 1900 respondents aged 50 years or older and have been divorced.

"Many women aged 50 and over begin to see labih many opportunities for them than when they were married," said Christine Northam, a Relate counselor from, an organization that cares about the relationships within the family.

"The longer a couple live together, even the less they know about each other." The scientists drew that conclusion after asking every couple of favorite foods, movies, and favorite kitchen appliances.

In the three questions that couples who have been together for 40 years made the mistake most answers than those who only two years together.

"One possible reason is the older partner is not giving enough attention to each other because they think they have a strong relationship or because they think they already know their partners well," Dr. Benjamin Scheibehenne review of the University of Basel, Switzerland, in the Journal of Consumer Psychology.

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